Jefferson Fisher

49 episodes
25.4 hours of content
7,623,896 total views
Jefferson Fisher

Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/newsl... Being nice won’t save you — especially in conflict. Too often, we think if we’re agreeable enough, people will treat us better or listen more. But that’s not how it works. In this episode, I talk about why “nice” people often get steamrolled in difficult conversations, the difference between being nice and being respectful, and how respectful firmness is actually the real power move. Thank you to our Sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. https://cozyearth.com/pages/jefferson Monarch Money. 50% off your first year at https://monarchmoney.com/jefferson BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/book Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/topic Join my School of Communication. https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/membe... Follow me on Instagram   / jefferson_fisher   Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@justaskjeffer... Follow me on LinkedIn   / jeffersonfisher  

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Being Nice Won’t Save You in Difficult Conversations
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Being Nice Won’t Save You in Difficult Conversations

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3 Communication Truths That Will Change Every Conversation
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3 Communication Truths That Will Change Every Conversation

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How My Parents Raised an Expert Communicator
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How My Parents Raised an Expert Communicator

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Mel Robbins: How to Handle Difficult People with the Let Them Theory

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Charles Duhigg: Asking Questions That Build Instant Connection
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Charles Duhigg: Asking Questions That Build Instant Connection

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You’re Not Responsible for Their Emotions

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How to Handle Nervousness Before a Big Conversation
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How to Handle Nervousness Before a Big Conversation

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The Best Way to Shut Down a Narcissist

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The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

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How Your Inner Circle Shapes Your Communication

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Erin McGoff: How to be Instantly More Confident at Work

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3 Steps to End a Relationship with Respect

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How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

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Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap

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3 Keys to Shut Down the Silent Treatment

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What Serving 7 Years in Prison Taught Damon West About Communication

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What to do When Someone Talks Over You

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How To Effectively Deal with Difficult Personalities

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How to Speak with Confidence at Work

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The Trick To Sounding Assertive in ANY Situation
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The Trick To Sounding Assertive in ANY Situation

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One Phrase That Instantly Ends Arguments
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One Phrase That Instantly Ends Arguments

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The 1 Phrase That Will DESTROY Any Marriage (And You’re Probably Saying It)

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Happiness Expert: Communication Hacks That Instantly Boost Your Mood

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How To Shut Down Rude People Instantly | Jefferson Fisher

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What to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

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How to Talk to Someone Who Doesn’t Like You

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Liars HATE This One Trick...Because It Works | Jefferson Fisher

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When A Conversation Becomes Highly Emotional, Do This...

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